family curse

so in my mind my family has this strange "curse"...its hard to describe maybe it stems from my parents teaching us that the key to happiness is keeping other people happy and that is BULLSHIT! this is actually the key to frustration and certain failure :) thank goodness i figured this out at 26 otherwise it could have been a rough life...well kinda figured it out im still trying to master "no"

so heres the "curse": if you date a member of my family for longer than 5 years your relationship is doomed.

1. oldest sister dates a guy for 5 years...breaks up...goes to law school...happily married to the next guy she dates

2. older sister dates a guy for 6 years...moves for him...engaged...broken up...happily married to the next guy she dates

3. me...dates a guy for 7 years...moves for him...breaks up...still single (well maybe mines coming)

4. my younger sister...dates a guy for 5 years...kinda moves in with him...engaged....broken up...happy with the next one? (this ones kinda new we will have to see)

5. well the youngest just breaks the mold :)

maybe its not a curse, maybe its a pattern of girls whos greatest love example was their parents who were not ever really in love. we watched our mom read romance novels to fill the void and when ask about her dating history gets a diversion. we all get there somehow, it shouldnt really be called a "curse"b/c so far everyone has ended up with their true love happier than ever.

it aint a curse its my over -active imagination...well good thing i have the hubcap to fall back on :)